Relationships are all about compromise. To make it work, you have to sometimes cede a point, or some ground, to the person you love just to make them happy. It may be that your prospective new husband may want a small wedding, but since you may have had your heart set on a lavish affair since you were a young girl, he agrees to be the centre of attention at a massive wedding. It can be more quotidian things though. Choosing where to go to dinner is often contentious, and if each person wants to go to a different place, for you to go anywhere, someone has to acquiesce. You do it for the other person, to make them happy, and to make their life easier in one way or another. However, sometimes, you may feel as if your spouse’s kindnesses have gone unanswered. In that case you may want to tell them that you still appreciate everything they do for you. There are lots of things that you can do, but the problem with conventional gestures is that the convention takes some of the romance out of it. Buying flowers or chocolates, while considerate in its way, can seem rather lazy when Valentine’s Day comes round again. If you really want to show them that you love them, a big gesture is what is required. Here are a few ideas for things you could do to say thank you:
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Unless you are one of the top 1% and you have money to burn, driving a supercar is simply not an experience that you have very often. Buying one is exceptionally expensive and then you have to think about insurance (which isn’t cheap either). Supercars are probably also quite difficult to maneuver around a supermarket car park. However, as a once in a lifetime experience, they are perfect. Hiring a supercar (from companies like Prestige Keys) is easier than you might think. The desire to drive around really fast might seem rather puerile, but the fact remains that a lot of people enjoy it.
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Another cool and romantic idea is to organise a weekend trip to another city. Tell your significant other that they need to pack a bag. Then organise everything else for them. They will have guessed that they are going on a trip, but even when they get to the airport, the anticipation will still be exciting. If you book the flights, hotels, and things to do in the place where you’re going, it represents a creative, and most importantly, immensely thoughtful gesture. It is also something that you can do together which is the perfect way to say thank you.
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An especially cool thing to do to show that special someone that you love them is to organise their perfect night in. Get their favourite food and a bottle of whatever they drink and invite their friends over. They will have a blast and they will realise how well you know them.